Every March, across India, a familiar silence descends over homes. Screen time is going down. Social events are postponed. Dining tables are quietly transformed into study tables. Board exams are not merely a milestone in a student’s life; they become a season for the whole family. In most homes, parents adjust their working hours, take leave and stay up late at night with their children, as if they themselves are turning up for the exam. The pressure is collective, the stress is shared, the hope unspoken but strongly felt. But what lies beneath the discipline and passion is something we talk about less: stress.

According to IC3 Student Suicide Avoidance Report 2025, one in five students rarely feel calm, motivated or excited about life, with academic pressure, career anxiety and homework emerging as top stressors. Girls experience nearly twice the rate of persistent sadness compared to boys, indicating increased exam-related anxiety. Despite policy reforms, this decades-long mental health crisis highlights exam fear as a persistent challenge in Indian education.
This is not a new concern for me.
Back in 2010, when I decided to make my first educational film, the topic I chose was exam fear. The film was titled “I Can Do It.” It explored how students can overcome anxiety and self-doubt during exams. At the time many questioned why I would focus on something so “ordinary”. But for me exam fear was not ordinary, it was fundamental. If a child is paralyzed by fear, learning stops. Over the years, through School Cinema and our work with thousands of schools, I have seen it repeatedly: stress does not improve performance. Do focus. And focus comes from emotional stability.
The hidden cost of exam stress
Research consistently shows that chronic stress impairs memory retention, reduces concentration and affects sleep cycles. Stressed students are more likely to experience declines in academic performance and disengagement. In one national pulse study, more than 80% of students reported moderate emotional or physical stress during exam periods. Poor coping mechanisms often lead to lower scores and reduced self-confidence. Yet we continue to approach exams primarily as an academic preparation challenge rather than a mental readiness challenge. That mindset needs to change.
What I learned from “Mission Exam”.
For several years we have been running a nationwide initiative titled ‘Mission Exam’ in partnership with Horlicks. The goal was simple: help students manage exam fear. What I learned during that period was transformative. Instead of constantly talking about “stress” and “pressure”, it is much more effective to focus on proactive habits that improve performance. Simple interventions create powerful outcomes:
Hydration matters. Even mild dehydration affects cognitive performance. A well-hydrated student thinks more clearly.
Sleep is non-negotiable. Memory consolidation occurs during sleep. Reducing sleep to study more often reduces retention.
Physical activity reduces cortisol. Yet many schools and parents stop sports during exam season, precisely when it is most needed.
Hobbies restore balance. Music, painting, reading for pleasure, these are not distractions. They regulate emotions.
Instrumental music in schools can improve focus. Structured audit environments improve concentration.
Positive reinforcement works better than fear-based motivation.
Meditation, breathing exercises and grounding exercises are valuable. But along with them, nutrition, water intake, structured breaks and movement are equally powerful and often overlooked. We don’t need complicated systems. We need consistent habits.
The role of counseling and life skills education
Mental health support in schools must go beyond crisis intervention. Counseling, when integrated early, equips students with cognitive tools to reframe fear. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) techniques help students move from “What if I fail?” to “How can I prepare better?” Mindfulness practices strengthen attention span and emotional regulation. Life skills education builds resilience long before exam season begins. When students develop self-awareness, emotional vocabulary and problem-solving abilities from primary years onwards, exam pressure becomes manageable and not overwhelming. Through TAISI schools and School Cinema programs, we have seen measurable improvements in student engagement when structured social-emotional learning is embedded in the academic calendar. When children are taught how to think about their emotions, performance improves. It’s not magic. This is neuroscience.
The link between well-being and academic performance
The evidence is clear: students who receive structured emotional support show higher concentration levels, stronger academic outcomes and lower dropout rates. Well-being is not separate from learning. It makes learning possible. The National Education Policy (NEP 2020) speaks of holistic development. CBSE guidelines emphasize life skills and socio-emotional growth. Government initiatives such as Manodarpan and Tele-MANAS indicate national recognition of students’ mental health needs. The direction is correct. The implementation must go deep.
Imagine if every school devoted just 15 minutes daily to structured wellness, breathing exercises, reflective dialogue or guided silence. Imagine if one million teachers were trained not only to deliver content, but to detect emotional distress early. The return on such an investment will not only be higher exam marks. These would be emotionally secure young citizens.
From Fear to Focus
The narrative around board exams needs to be reframed. Instead of asking, “How do we reduce stress?”
We must ask, “How do we build focus?” Focus grows out of: Emotional safety, Consistent routines, Supportive parenting, Balanced schedules and encouragement rather than comparison.
When schools and families work together, small shifts make a difference.
Let children sleep well.
Keep them hydrated.
Let them move.
Let them listen to calming music.
Let them stand still.
Make them feel supported.
And most importantly, let them know that exams measure preparation, not worth it.
A Personal Reflection
When I made “I Can Do It” in 2010, I believed that helping a child overcome exam fear is about building confidence. Fifteen years later, I understand it more deeply. It’s about designing systems that reduce fear before it becomes overwhelming. If we truly want to move from stress to focus, mental health support cannot be an afterthought during counseling season. It must be woven into everyday school life.
Because when students feel emotionally secure, they don’t just pass exams. They are thriving!
(This article was written by Syed Sultan Ahmed, Chairman, The Association of International Schools of India (TAISI), Festival Director, School Cinema International Film Festival (SCIFF) and Founder and Chief Learner, LXL Ideas)
